So when my friend said, “Having heard from mother, I went into the kitchen to make some coffee, I was so elated having heard exactly what I wanted to hear from my mother. And then, all of a sudden, out of the nowhere came your voice and your voice came like thunder through the kitchen, and it said, ‘That’s the spirit!’ I almost dropped the coffee and instead of having coffee all over the kitchen floor I held it just before it fell. Your voice came through the nowhere, out of nowhere, and it was you speaking, and you said, ‘That’s the spirit!’” That’s exactly what Paul said, “Not the letter of the law but the spirit. The letter kills, the spirit makes alive.” It was the Paul in me speaking to her when she heard my voice, “That’s the spirit!” She said, “I stood there for a moment and I trembled and I shook all over. Pouring that coffee thing, it almost fell to the floor when I heard what you said, ‘That’s the spirit!’”351 ¶34